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Good Saturday morning to all.

I trust things are all well with you and yours. If not, God is still the answer to your WHY?

We have been studying 1 Peter on Wednesday evenings and in chapter 3:8 it says, "Sympathize with each other. Love each other as brothers and sisters, be tenderhearted, and keep a humble attitude."

At times what people say in a conversation is not nearly as important as what they are feeling. They may say one thing and feel another. That's just part of being a person. 

If you want to be a good listener, then you need to look beyond a person's words, even if what they are saying is offensive. We have all heard the phrase: "Hurting people, hurt people."

When that occurs, it is often because they are afraid, insecure or frustrated.

Words do not always give you the full picture. You need to look at a few more things. Consider what the person has experienced and their background. Be aware that the words they use may have nothing to do with you.

As Christian brothers and sisters, learning to listen with love means looking beyond the things they may say to what they are feeling. 

If you do not know the person well enough to understand them, learn to give them room and give them the benefit of doubt at that point. As you build a relationship with them, they will grow to trust you and what you say. So, use humility, kindness, and grace.

In the end, love will always overpower harshness.

Just a little note---That's what Jesus did at the Cross.

Much love,
Pastor G

*Here is a little homework; Why not call someone today and share a little love and kindness to them.